No sillies, not eating wings and staining your new manicures, I'm talking about trying to set up a lesbian friend with another lesbian in a bar.
I have a friend who playfully asked me why I couldn't have done just that for her one night when she was hot on the track of a femme blond in this gay venue we were in. We all know, often, when someone "playfully" asks something - they mean it. Especially when its a genetic woman who is asking. Of course, at the time, I was a little slow on the uptake and didn't do it but began to think why couldn't I? This could be another one of those ultra unique "bucket list" opportunities to experience like a bachelorlette party.
Why this falls into my lap is, my friend does not have a partner. When events come up where she is sure will have a number of lesbians in attendance, she wants to drag me along (no pun intended). So, I'm sure I will have a chance to be a "wing girl" in the future. Of course I wondered how I would even go about doing it. Looking back, I don't even think I did the "wing thing" as a guy.
Finally, I came to the conclusion the process may be easier. Number one, she is femme and attractive which should open her availability up in the room and number two, as a transgender girl-I would certainly open the door quickly or slam it shut. Either way, it would be simpler than sitting there watching her squirm in her seat about approaching someone. Plus, the more secure I am with my feminine self, the less shy I am! I would have no problem asking someone else to please talk to my friend because she is driving me nuts!
So, the next time she asks for a "wing girl" I'm taking flight.