|Paula (on the right)|
It seems that I'm not the only one thinking along these lines at the moment, Cyrsti noted on her Condo that she had made a few "genderless posts" and the wonderful Hanna wondered of she should be writing about more than just clothes and makeup, I enjoy these blogs and would say to them both, don't try to change, just carry on doing what comes naturally.
Certainly it was my gender issues that made me start the blog, it soon became a safe place for me to note my thoughts and feelings, and occasionally get some feedback from people who had walked this path before me. It was a chance to talk about my outings, discuss my latest clothing purchases and talk about makeup. But soon the rest of my life leaked in. I am not just transgender but many other things as well, so I hope that is reflected in my blog, I know the blogs I enjoy reading most are reflect the whole person, not just their gender identity.
First of all I was flattered to be included in Paula's thoughts and two, the excerpts above are just a portion of her thoughts. (Follow the link above for the whole post.)
Finally, my feelings on the matter of writing a "gender blog" is this. When I started Cyrsti's Condo, it even had a different name and was a suggestion of an on line acquaintance who I had shared my cross dressing experiences with. More than several people seemed to be be interested in my antics and wanted to read more. Then my orientation began to change with HRT and living more and more as a transgender woman- and I kept writing. So to this point, you all have transitioned with me to the point of even buying my book "Stilletto's on Thin Ice." - if you wanted the in depth version.
So I suppose, in many ways I'm beginning to feel the same way as transgender women such as Laverne Cox and Carmen Carerra do: I am actively merging all my social media accounts involving my non gender related business and interests into one account on Twitter, Pinterest, etc...I do all of this and I just happen to be transgender too. An example is, if you go to my Pinterest page you will see boards reflecting my love for vintage items and "ambiance" home decorating ideas as well as the usual plethora of cross dresser, transgender pix.
Who knows? Maybe as I merge everything I love into one person and project it into the world, I won't be writing a "gender blog" anymore. But that is another topic for another post and thank you Paula!