I know when I was growing up I had at least one dream a week in which I was a girl and I didn't want to wake up to the real world of being a boy.
As time went on though, I began to dream as me-most of the time with no respect to either gender.
I know people who say they can dream in color, so I began to wonder about gender and why my gender dreams seemed to fade away the more I MtF transitioned into a 24/7 life as a transgender woman.
I also know there is no real answer to why someone dreams the way they do. Although some peeps make a living out of telling people why. I am learning to read Tarot cards now, maybe I will have to ask the cards!
It's my theory the less stress I put on myself to live the life I have always wanted...maybe I didn't have to dream about it!